
How to Choose the Right Therapist for You
Choosing a therapist is a deeply personal decision — and one that can shape the course of your healing, growth, or recovery. Whether you’re seeking support for mental health, emotional overwhelm, identity questions, or life transitions, finding the right person to walk alongside you is essential.
In this guide, we’ll explore how to find the best therapist for your unique circumstances, including key questions to ask, how to assess credentials, and what to expect when starting therapy.
您的治療之旅是甚麼?
In the UK, mental health support is provided by a range of professionals.
Here’s a quick breakdown to help you navigate the different titles.
Psychologist vs Psychiatrist
Psychologist: Trained at doctoral level, psychologists are HCPC-registered and work using evidence-based therapy. They do not prescribe medication.
Psychiatrist: A medical doctor who can diagnose mental disorders and prescribe medication. Some are also trained in psychotherapy
Psychologist vs Therapist
Psychologist: Offers therapy grounded in research and clinical training, often with specialisation in complex cases or dual concerns (e.g. trauma and identity).
Therapist: A broader term; can include counsellors or psychotherapists. Training and regulation may vary.
Psychologist vs Counsellor
Psychologist: Usually has wider clinical training (doctorate level) and may integrate multiple models of therapy.
Counsellor: Often trained at diploma or master’s level (minimum Level 4–5), with a focus on talk therapy and present-day challenges.
Psychologist vs Psychotherapist
Psychotherapist: Typically trained in depth-oriented or relational therapies over several years.
Psychologist: May also practise psychotherapy, but with additional scientific and clinical training.


Step 2: Clarify Your Needs
Take a moment to ask yourself: What do I need support with right now?
Is this about a mental health condition, emotional stress, relationships, identity, or personal growth?
Therapists often specialise in different areas. You might look for someone with experience in:
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Depression or anxiety
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Trauma, grief or abuse recovery
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Cultural identity or migration
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Relationships, family, or parenting
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LGBTQ+ or gender-affirming support
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Burnout, career stress, or emotional fatigue
您的治療之旅是甚麼?
Different therapists are trained in different methods. No one approach is better — but some may suit your goals better than others.
Common types of therapy include:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
structured, practical, goal-oriented
Person-Centred Therapy
non-directive, focuses on your self-understanding
Psychodynamic Therapy
explores unconscious patterns and past experiences
Gestalt Therapy
experiential and focused on present-moment awareness
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR)
effective for trauma
Systemic Therapy
often used for family and relationship concerns
Culturally Responsive Therapy
integrates identity, language, and lived experience into therapeutic work


Step 4: Ask the Right Questions
Before committing, consider asking your potential psychologist:
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What is your training and background?
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What therapy models do you use?
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Have you worked with people facing similar challenges?
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How do you tailor your approach to each client?
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What happens if I need to cancel or pause sessions?
A good therapist will welcome your questions and help you feel empowered in your decision.

Step 5: Trust the Fit
After your first consultation or session, reflect on how you felt:
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Did I feel heard and respected?
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Could I imagine building trust with this person?
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Was the space emotionally safe and culturally sensitive?
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Do I feel hopeful, even if I’m still unsure?
Therapy is a partnership. You don’t have to feel “certain” after one meeting — but you should feel seen.
